Such a story, friends, Georgia has not yet known! And few countries where this would be possible! Our today's hero is Oleg Shainidze! He takes care of two children alone - a 14-year-old daughter and a ten-year-old son who suffers from epilepsy. What a grief and an unprecedented love of a father for his children.
Oleg, how did it happen that you were left alone with the children? Where is your spouse?
Oleg: Nana is a very good woman. I love her and do not blame her! Unhappy woman. We had everything for love, but few who can survive such grief - the incurable disease of the child.
When Sabo got sick, her heart could not stand it. She fell down from grief and for two years I took care of her, like a third young child. And when it got a little better, he let go. And blessed her departure, because if she had stayed, she had died! She could not, being seriously ill, look after a sick child. And I love her and would not survive her death! And then what would happen to my children: neither dad nor mom. He will recover, return. But I know that now it’s sick. And please do not ask more about her. It hurts me to remember! I don’t want anyone to blame her. Not everyone can cope with the fact that the child is sick and cannot be cured by anything ... It is very, very difficult!
The only bad thing is that her parents and relatives did not support her! They lost a daughter, and I - my beloved wife!
And Mariam communicates with mom ... And thank God!
-Oleg, tell us about your children.
Oleg: My daughter is Mariam -14 years old, she is in ninth grade. She loves to read. Every evening after she does her homework, she is in no hurry to go out and chat with her peers, but sits with her brother and reads books to him, and Saba loves to listen to her. You should look into his eyes once, and you will understand that his sister is the main person! Saba will turn 11 in April. We love him very much. He loves to smile, and his smile inspires me to continue to live for my children.
-When did you hear about Saba’s diagnosis?
Oleg: He was a year old when the doctors told us that he was sick. For me it was a big blow. I remember those days, all my feelings and prayers in which I turned to God to give me strength to help him. And how the spouse suffered - and not convey.
- Aren't you angry with your spouse’s parents? After all, if they helped, then (the name of the wife) did not get sick and did not leave the family?
Oleg: You know, everyone has their own truth. You can not discuss people without knowing them. We should never condemn each other and do not forget the words of God: "who among you is without sin, first cast a stone at her."
-Do you get any help from the state?
Oleg: Yes, the social assistance and pension of my Saba, but this is not enough for us. I rent an apartment, I don’t have anything.
You know, when a sick child is born, you don’t think what will happen next, how you will live on, the main thing is to save and cure ... so I sold everything that I had and was left with nothing! And now the children need food, Saba care and Mariam school supplies ... I am always looking for work, but I can’t leave Saba. Once I tried to work at night, when all the work at home was done, the children were put to bed, I thought of going to a construction site to work or as a night watchman, but in the morning I felt bad. I could drop my boy!
What would you say to our readers? What do you need most?
Oleg: We need everything (laughs), but especially I would like to ask for a special stroller for bathing my Saba. Bathing becomes a very difficult procedure for us. I put my son on my knees and bathe him. And if you look at our bath, you will understand that it is very difficult and sometimes dangerous! I don’t even have a kitchen at home and I have to go out in the cold to wash the dishes. It is also very cold at our place and I would be glad if my children would be warm. You are doing a great job helping people. You are the messengers of our Lord. Each slightest help is for us a reason to believe in good and kind people.
We wanted to chat with Mariam. When she returned from school, she sat down next to my dad, listening to us, but when it came to mom, she ran away from us with tears in her eyes. Oleg explained to us that she is very emotional. She wants to change everything, to help everyone, but she understands that she is still small and can not, she becomes hard on her soul.
Friends, we see how 14-year-old Mariam wants to help people, but so far she can’t. Thanks to our Lord, we can help the father of these angels and show that he is not alone and that good people appreciate him as a real, loving father. We can help little Saba feel better and give Mariam an example and an opportunity to help people in need. After all, our Lord wants us to do so that we remember that the most forgotten, last man is also a man and our brother!
Friends, the Chernovetsky Charity Foundation begins an action: to help the unfortunate family of Shainidze. As you know, the Fund does not stop with one-time assistance. Georgians must live as it should be the most proud nation on earth - Georgians!
To survive, a single father with two young children urgently needs foodUkty food, hygiene products, medicines, household appliances, wheelchair! Help them survive, consider that these are your loved ones, that this little sick boy is your blood.
And also - try to make friends with this cheerful, very kind father. Call him, Happy New Year, wish good luck!
Cheer up this hero father, support him, say that he is not alone and that we will not leave his children in trouble! It is very important!
You can also personally meet them, provide them with all possible assistance, and God bless you! And will reward you! Here is their contact phone .: 514 01 48 48 Address: Ureki.
And be sure to CEREAL our post. Let your friends know about the grief of this family! It is very important!
God gives us the opportunity to take care of people who are not able to do it themselves. Do not pass by someone else's misfortune! Unhappy people are given to us from above so that we can prove our faith to the Almighty not in words but in deeds!
Friends, there is one more request, if you know about the misfortune of a neighbor or acquaintance, do a charitable deed, write to us by e-mail: email@example.com.
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And also, friends, be sure to find the opportunity to congratulate the destitute Georgians with New Years and then Merry Christmas with kind words or postcards. And for children - present toys or sweets, and we will send you their smiles. We all are one family. These people must know that we are together and always there!