Dear mummy, why did you give birth to me for suffering?
More than anything in the world, Nino is afraid to hear these words from her 5-year-old daughter Mariam.
How cruel people can be, not only to each other, but also to their relatives. They can be worse than wild animals!
When Nino Sukhitashvili got sick with a "women's disease", her husband kicked her out from his house to the street, although she was pregnant, and brought a mistress to live with him. And this happened after 18 years of marriage and after his oath to God at the wedding in the Church, that he will take care of her all her life..!
Sick and unhappy, pregnant Nino came to her mother's house. But her own sister with her husband were not happy with Nino. My mother died and they considered the house to be "their own".
"Strangers are not needed"! And they kicked out the miserable one into this terrible barn, where the beautiful Mariam was born, with whom they live with only 130 lari per month: cold and hungry. But is it life? What do you think, friends?
– How so... – Mourned her life Nino. – I cared about my sister in the childhood as if she was my child!
Every morning 41-year-old Nino wakes up with a heartache, realizing that she is seriously ill and any day may become the last for her. But the most terrible thing for her is to hear the following question from her beloved 5-year-old daughter Mariam before death: "Why did you give birth to me, mother, to make me suffer?!"
Almost all night Nino does not sleep. Her joints ache, her stomach aches with spasms. The young woman has many acquired diseases. "Because life is not a bed of roses," Nino says through tears.
But even in this state, the mother is not worried about herself – her only concern is her long-awaited daughter, to whom she can give nothing but her love and affection. And this will not calm a hungry baby.
Frozen with cold, stripped concrete walls, damp floor, one iron bed for two, a few blankets to protect themselves from the cold – that's all the wealth of these poor people!
With tears in her eyes and unbearable pain in her heart Nino told us about the problems that gathered over her family like a snowball.
Nino: I had a family, my husband and I lived soul to soul. The only thing that marred our love – we could not have a child for long 18 years. When treatment and trips to different healers did not help, I said: " My God, if I am not worthy of being a mother, then I will raise someone else's child." But God heard me and sent me a baby! Oh, how happy I was!
One thing I didn't take into account, – Nino told us bitterly, – along with pregnancy, cursed women's diseases began... And then the husband who swore at the wedding to God in the Church to take care of me, decided to get rid of me. Can you imagine that? On the third month of pregnancy I was kicked out like a dog into the street. And he brought a new "fool" to his house! Probably, he also swears of "eternal love" to her, – Nino said with resentment…
"You know, I don't wish my husband any harm, but I always believed that he would come, apologize, hold Mariam to his chest, and kiss her. Daughters especially love their fathers! You know...! She needs, oh, she needs a father." And she wept bitterly!
– Nino, tell us, how did you end up in this room? It is dangerous to stay here!
Nino: After leaving my family, I had no place to live, so I came to my mother. My sister and her husband lived here. After my mother died, they threw me out of the house, but "took pity on me" and allowed me to live in a barn, next to the house... That's how I live with my daughter here... like mongrels on whom the good owners took pity and were not kicked out in the street…
– Nino, you have no opportunity to work, right?
Nino: As soon as I have the opportunity, I work. Now in the field, now on the farm... plowing the land, sowing, harvesting... Without this, I will not be able to feed my darling, which I had been waiting for 18 years!
– Nino, I'm going to ask you a very awkward question, but you can leave it unanswered if you wish. Why don't your relatives and friends help you?
Nino: I told you, they put us out... and I don't have any other relatives!
– You said that you need an operation and you don't have the money for treatment.
Nino: Yes, this is true, I have a cyst on my ovary, but it is, as the doctors said, is not deadly, but the operation should be done. If I have surgery, I will not be able to lift weights... I can't work physically... and then what will happen to my daughter? How can I starve her to death? The angel I've been waiting for for 18 years!
– Mariam, could I ask you, what are you dreaming about?
Mariam (15 years old): My mother and I need a bed, and we need food. And I want a doll for myself. A beautiful one... I have a doll but everyone is afraid of it. And I'm not afraid... She's not pretty and she doesn't have one eye, but I love her. She's my daughter! And I want to have a New Year holiday. All children received gifts and my New Year was only on these windows in the form of these snowflakes. (see photo)
– Nino, you know that the articles of our Fund are read by almost all of Georgia. They are read by officials from government agencies. What do you expect, do you think there will be a resonance?
Nino: I don't even know... When your family treats you like a dog, what can I expect from strangers? Let it be as God wills!
– Address our readers!
Nino: Help me feed my daughter! Give me the opportunity to give her a normal life! I don't want her to tell me, "why did you give birth to me, mother?"
Dear friends, Chernovetskyi Fund initiates a charitable action: to help the Sukhitashvili. As you know, the Fund does not stop at one-time assistance. Georgians should live as the proudest nation on earth – Georgians!
To survive, the family is in dire need of food, hygiene products, beds and clothes! Help them survive! "Write them down" as your relatives. And we are sure that the Lord himself will bless you.
And even more: call Nino, find out about their needs, cheer them up, support them, tell her that she is not alone and that nobody will leave them alone in their trouble on the New Year eve! It is very important.
You can personally know them, provide assistance to this family, and God will bless you. And He will reward You! Here's their contact number: 599 37 82 06 Address: Gori Region, the village of Karaleti.
And be sure to repost our publication. Let all your friends know about the grief of this family! It is very important.
God gives us the opportunity to take care of people who are not able to do it themselves. Not all people are the same. And not everyone is as kind as we are. Please, do not pass aside the sorrow of others! Unhappy people are given to us from above so that we can prove our faith to the Almighty not in words but in deeds!
Friends, there is one more request, if you know about the misfortune of a neighbor or friend, do a Charitable deed, write to us by e-mail: firstname.lastname@example.org.
Our Fund account GE15TB7194336080100003, GE42LB0115113036665000 or GE64BG0000000470458000 (purpose: Sukhitashvili family). You can also transfer money from our website.
You can as well transfer money from the terminals of Nova Technology, TBCpay and ExpressPay. Find our Fund in "Charity" section. (You can learn about the additional rights and obligations of the Fund by following the link https://goo.gl/GY2Gus).
And more, friends, be sure to find an opportunity to congratulate disadvantaged Georgians on holidays with kind words or postcards. And give toys or candies to the children, and in return they will send their smiles to you. We are all one family. These people must know that we are together and always close!