Baby shows me how her mommy cries when she asks her to buy candy. “That’s what she does: she utters “Eeeee” and hides her eyes. She thinks I’m too little and cannot see that." - Projects - Сhernovetskyi Fund

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Baby shows me how her mommy cries when she asks her to buy candy. “That’s what she does: she utters “Eeeee” and hides her eyes. She thinks I’m too little and cannot see that."

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January 10, 2022
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Mariam (5-year-old): When I tell mommy the word “candy”, she immediately starts crying. Are you afraid of this word too? Candy, candy! Well, you are not afraid! Then give me "two money", I will buy candy for us, and for mom, and for you. Do you want me to buy? Or I'll buy cookies.
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Baby shows me how her mommy cries when she asks her to buy candy. “That’s what she does: she utters “Eeeee” and  hides her eyes. She thinks I’m too little and cannot see that." 

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“My mommy does this: she hides her eyes and utters “Eeeee”. She cries this way.  She thinks I cannot see that."

 Mariam (5-year-old): When I tell mommy the word “candy”, she immediately starts crying. Are you afraid of this word too? Candy, candy! Well, you are not afraid! Then give me "two money", I will buy candy for us, and for mom, and for you. Do you want me to buy? Or I'll buy cookies.

- And what if I bring you candy?

Mariam: Do you know how to choose? Have you eaten many candies? Do you know which ones are the most delicious? One has a strawberry on the wrapper, and another one - cow. But I would rather do it myself!

  - What else do you want besides sweets?

  Mariam: So that Natia doesn't scream and cry all day. She does not let my sister and me play. Come on, we'll teach you how to make cookies. So that mom doesn't cry either. She doesn't cry as loudly as Natia. She is quiet: "Eeee-ee-ee".

 

“You can make cookies out of mud, but you can't eat them. They are not tasty!"

What will be the future of the children who have only seen how their mother cries? Are they, too, doomed to suffer? They just haven’t seen another reality.

  When 20-year-old Khatia got married, she thought that all her problems had come to an end, that her husband would carry her in his arms, because he promised that together they could overcome all difficulties. Khatia's childhood was not too happy, and she saw salvation in her “prince”. It was like a fairy tale, but after the birth of her daughter Mariam, everything started going wrong.

Her husband began to drink, became aggressive, he scolded her with almost no reason. “He probably wanted to have a son,” - thought Khatia. Anano was born one year later. And then it began... He pushed her once, then hit her, then hit her again harder and harder every time... Then he beat her to a concussion. She endured. She thought she did not deserve anything better. But when Khatia became pregnant for the third time with Natia, her husband beat her pregnant. It was then that Khatia realized that he could harm not only her, but also the children. She left. She lived in a shelter for victims of domestic violence for two months. Then she asked her mother to forgive her. Despite the controversy, she was accepted.

“Look! Something may fall from there"

  Her mother's house turned out to be their only refuge. “It’s good, at least I don’t have to pay rent,” - Khatia says. Her only income - social allowance - is barely enough for foodstuffs and baby formula. It is difficult to explain to the little ones that there will be only bread and tea for lunch. They are constantly hungry; they want to have something tasty. And they don't even know exactly what they want.

"Mom washes this way, but she doesn't let us.”

- Khatia, your children told me that you are afraid of candy.

Khatia: When they ask me to buy candy for them, tears start to flow from my eyes... I don't even remember the last time I bought sweets for my children. If someone gives them sweets, they literally squeal with joy, and I'm so embarrassed. They are crazy with sweets. They are deprived of everything. What can I buy with allowance only? I can’t work. There is no one to leave my baby with. She has a bad temper - Probably it’s because of my difficult pregnancy. She clearly lacks food. And the formula is very expensive. I fail to allocate money for diapers, food, and clothes. My children are barefoot.

"If we have princess shoes, we promise to never take them off."

- Does the father of the children help you?

Khatia: He doesn't even pay alimony. What kind of help can we talk about?

- Who helps you?

Khatia: Mom helps me when she manages to. She has plenty of problems herself. I'm used to doing everything myself not relying on anyone. I have never even got gifts...

- What gift would you like to get for the New Year?

  Khatia: I really don't know...  They never gave me presents. I have one dream - a washing machine! I know, I will never save enough money to buy it, and women like me never get such expensive gifts. So, I will keep washing with hands as I used to do.

- I think there are no such desires that the readers and friends of the Fund could not fulfill! Now, if you had a lot of money, what would you do first?

  Khatia: A lot of money? Well, first of all I would take Natia to the doctor. She has a defect on her fingers. When she was born, I was told that she needed a cosmetic surgery to get her fingers separated. But so far, I do not have the means just to go to Tbilisi from Kakheti and pay the doctor.

“You can fix this defect anytime. But I want her to have beautiful fingers before she realizes that she is not like everyone else. It is a tragedy for any girl to have physical defects”

- How much money do you need to visit a doctor?

  Khatia: Probably 100 lari for transport and for doctors. Maybe they will also say that it is too early for her to be operated on. And I cannot just waste money. You can buy bread for a month with one hundred lari. The main thing is that nothing hurts her, that it does not give her any discomfort. The most painful thing for Natia is hunger! When she is hungry, and I can't even give her  some bread, that's a disaster! And not only Natia, when Anano is hungry she cries even louder!

“I am hungry, mom, I am hungry!!!”

- Let's summarize. Let's make a wish list.

Khatia: Washing machine, diapers, foodstuffs, shoes, and sweets. I can't think of anything else.

 Mariam: Don't forget the sweets with cow and strawberries! To have enough for everyone. When will you bring all this? And also bring us the “princess” shoes!

- I think I'm not the only one who wants to bring you sweets. Do you know how many good people live in Georgia?

Mariam: One hundred of them?

- Even more! You’ll see! And count yourself.

“Tell you friends to bring me a baby too”

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  Fear... Fear is what fills the life of a mother of young children. Fear for their health. Fear for their uncertain future. Where to get money? What to do? There is only one way out - to ask people and hope for their help. To ask help from those who never condemn, who will accept you! Here you are - God's children. Buy one extra candy to make a real holiday for 5-year-old Mariam, 4-year-old Anano, and 1-year-old Natia. When they grow up, they will have something to remember. They will have something to tell their children.

Khatia Khatiashvili and her children need any help: baby formula and diapers, foodstuffs, washing machine, refrigerator, warm clothes and shoes.

  You can visit them and provide them all possible help. Their address is: Signaghi municipality, Vakiri village.

  Every time you can help someone, just do it and rejoice that God answers someone's prayers through you!

Let’s show our mercy and make little Mariam, Anano and Natia believe that miracles happen, that they can have the same wonderful childhood as other children! They believe in us. Do not let our compatriots down. Show them what generous people live in Georgia

We are sure that all together we will manage to change their life.

  Please don’t forget to repost our story. Let your friends know about the grief of this family! It’s extremely important!

  Friends, there is one more request: if you know about the misfortune of a neighbor or friend do a godly deed, drop us an email at: office-fsp@fsp.ge.

Our Fund’s accounts are:

#GE15TB7194336080100003

#GE42LB0115113036665000

#GE64BG0000000470458000

(purpose: Khatia Khatiashvili).

You can also transfer money from our website.

It is also possible to transfer money from TBCpay and ExpressPay terminals. Find our Fund under "Charity" section (You can read more about rights and responsibilities of the Fund following the link https://goo.gl/GY2Gus). ).

  We have already helped thousands of disadvantaged people! Let’s support this family too! And who knows, maybe someday we ourselves will need help of strangers! Life is always unpredictable!

We have good news for you - now you can read the stories of our beneficiaries on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/chernovetskyi.fund/ and Telegram: https://t.me/ChernovetskyiFund.

Even if you dial once this special number, 

it might save someone's life: 0901 200 270! God bless you!


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GE64BG0000000470458000

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