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“If I die today, my grandson will die tomorrow, or maybe he will be buried alive with me, because nobody wants him but me! Nobody wants him… his mother left him, and his father left him. They left their sick child and found happiness elsewhere” – says Malardo and hides her eyes. She is ashamed for Soso’s mother and the father. Who needs a sick man? And they are still young, they can give birth to new and healthy children!
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Have you ever seen an angel? The name of one of them is Malardo. She’s 80 years old and looks like this!
“If I die today, my grandson will die tomorrow, or maybe he will be buried alive with me, because nobody wants him but me! Nobody wants him… his mother left him, and his father left him. They left their sick child and found happiness elsewhere” – says Malardo and hides her eyes. She is ashamed for Soso’s mother and the father. Who needs a sick man? And they are still young, they can give birth to new and healthy children!
He doesn’t want to let his grandmother go even for a second
– Malardo, how did it happen? When the parents abandoned your grandson?
Malardo: I can’t say they abandoned him, but you know what life is like? It happened like that. I’m not judging anybody, either my son-in-law or my daughter – it’s their choice. But I couldn’t abandon my child like that. Soso was born a healthy child, he even went to school for 5 years. To be honest it was hard for him to study, I sat by him and we studied together. He barely learned the alphabet and numbers.
That’s how Soso looked like before his disease started to progress
– So he’s been living with you since birth?
Malardo: When he was 6 years old, my daughter went to Greece to work. She had problems with the law there because, at that time, people went there to work without documents. It wasn’t for the good times, let me tell you. So as not to bore you with a long story, I will tell you briefly: she could not leave that country for 7 years. When she finally managed to come back, she was in for a “big surprise”. Her husband already had another family and a child! She could not bear the shame, and whether to spite him or for love, she soon got married too. No one remembered the child, Soso. So I was left alone with him. When Soso was little, it was easier for me to cope. He walked on his own, I was even able to take him to school for 5 years! But as the years went by, his condition became more and more unbearable, and I wasn’t getting any younger. Now I’m an infirm old lady and he’s a grown man.
“It’s very hard for me to keep Soso clean with my twisted hands”
– It must be very hard for you, how do you manage to cope?
Malardo: My legs can’t hold me at all anymore. And I have to change his diapers several times a day, wash him, clean him, feed him, put ointment on his back to prevent bedsores. I put a pillow under his back so he can sit down and wash him right in bed, and feed him, then I change the sheets…
Soso is like a little child, he understands nothing, and his grandmother tries to entertain him with the toys she gave him when he was a baby
– Does Soso realize his condition?
Malardo: He does not. His condition got worse after a covid. The year before last, his mother took him to her place for a few weeks. I was sick and couldn’t look after him. Apparently, they didn’t take proper care of him, and Soso got a covid. When I brought him back, he was covered with sores. He couldn’t talk and think, his seizures became more severe and more frequent. I barely nursed him, barely healed all his wounds…But I did not manage to bring him to the condition when he was able to sit and walk independently. One year ago, during a severe attack of epilepsy, Soso collapsed and broke his arm. His bones shattered. Now he can’t move his arms.
Sometimes he gets aggressive and can hit his grandmother
– What was he like before he got covid?
Malardo: I used to read him books, we watched TV together. I told him: “Look, this is our president, and this actress’ name is Nana, and this one is Otar.” And the next time he recognized them. Those were the quiet days. And sometimes it seems as something gets into him. He has seizures, outbursts of violence. He starts screaming, grabs me by the hair and hits me – sometimes very hard. But how could I resent him? He doesn’t realize what he is doing. And now I put his childhood toys next to him. I sit next to him and play with him like he is baby – he’s happy. That’s my whole life. Sometimes, when it is very hard to me, I ask God: “Do I really deserve such old age? Why did He give me such a trial? I don’t mean it’s physically hard to me, it breaks just my heart. Do you know how happy I was?
Once upon a time Malardo was a happy woman, too
– Please, tell us about your youth.
Malardo: I had a wonderful childhood. I was the youngest child in the family – the sixth one! Can you imagine how much they loved me? My mom and dad loved me, my brothers and sister adored me. We had a very friendly family. My parents were hard-working peasants, and their aim was to educate all their children. We all graduated from universities and worked in our professions. I was a schoolteacher for 30 years. I loved my job, and the children loved me. Now I realize that I lived like in a fairy tale. And my husband was wonderful. We loved each other very much, and we had good children – daughter and son. But it was like someone cursed us and everything went wrong. I buried my parents, all my siblings, my husband, and my youngest son. And my daughter…my daughter abandoned her child!
“I will nurse my Soso until God takes me away”
– Oh my God! One should have nerves of steel to go through that and remain such a kind and sweet person! How do you manage to? You haven’t uttered even one unkind word.
Malardo: How can I blame anyone? Who can I blame? My daughter? My son-in-law? Soso, because he was born sick? God? It is my cross, and I bear it. The main thing is not to lose face. I think the happiness I accumulated as a child supports me now. I also have no right to die while Soso is alive. What will happen to him when I die? Who will know? He won’t be able to dial to anyone. And he won’t be able to call anyone. And when they find me dead in a day or two, my grandson will probably be gone by then… When I imagine this terrible picture, I say to myself: come on, Malardo, you have to get up, you have no other choice. Sometimes I wish my grandson had died a day before me. So that I wouldn’t take my worries about him to my grave, that he was left alone – sick and discarded like a broken toy.
“An 80-year-old grandmother keeps her grandson so clean. God bless her”
– Malardo, how can we make your life easier?
Malardo: All the gold in the world can’t improve my grandson’s health, nor can make me strong and young. But I have one very big dream. I need a comfortable bed for my grandson. He does not feel comfortable lying on this old wreck, and it is hard to me. We also need diapers and hygiene products, medication. And we buy food with our pension – it is enough for that!
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The situation of our compatriot Malardo Tsigroshvili is just terrible. She lived a happy life, but her old age turned out to be harsh. Now the unfortunate woman lives only for her grandson, who has been abandoned by everyone.
This unfortunate woman and her grandson will appreciate any help they get – especially food, diapers, and hygiene products. Her biggest dream is an orthopedic bed for her grandson.
If anyone is willing to visit and help them in person, here is their address: Telavi district, Lapankuri village.
Every time you can help someone, just do it, and rejoice that God answers someone’s prayers through you!
We are sure that all together we will manage to save them from imminent death.
Please don’t forget to repost our story. Let your friends know about the grief of this family! It’s extremely important!
Friends, there is one more request: if you know about the misfortune of a neighbor or friend do a godly deed, drop us an email at: office-fsp@fsp.ge
Our Fund’s accounts are:
#GE15TB7194336080100003
#GE42LB0115113036665000
#GE64BG0000000470458000
(Purpose: The Tsigroshvili family).
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It is also possible to transfer money from TBCpay and ExpressPay terminals. Find our Fund under “Charity” section (you can read more about rights and responsibilities of the Fund following the link https://goo.gl/GY2Gus
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“Who said that Soso doesn’t understand anything at all? He rejoices in all new things!”
– My disabled grandson has no chance of being healed. – And this great tragedy will not allow my heart to rest from tears,” says 80-year-old grandmother Malardo. – But you have relieved me of the physical suffering to which I am condemned in old age. My old hands and legs, my back, have been relieved of the burden because now we have home appliances and my grandson has an orthopedic bed. Today, I am rejoicing; I have received a great respite from you, so as not to die from unbearable labor.
Soso, who is seriously ill, was abandoned by his parents in his childhood and left in the care of his elderly grandmother. Now, at the age of 25, the frail grandmother Malardo is completely overwhelmed by poverty, his illness, and a myriad of problems. Your assistance is a breath of fresh air, providing new strength to persevere and not give up.
„Today, I am rejoicing – I have received a great respite from you“
– Most of all, we wanted to relieve you of your suffering. What makes you feel better now, Malardo?
Malardo: I wanted and asked for an orthopedic bed for my Soso, and they brought me so much more… Your social worker noticed and wrote down everything while walking around the house, I suppose. He noticed that I was using the old refrigerator as a cupboard. And my “field” portable stove, on which I could only make soup and tea. And the bowl in which I boiled water for tea…
“I wanted an orthopedic bed the most, so that my grandson wouldn’t have to sleep hunched over. Thank you from the bottom of my heart!”
I used to cry all the time because of the firewood. First, I had to go on these aching legs, searching for a cheaper option. Then, convince someone to deliver it, and then find someone to chop it… I am so relieved that I won’t have to go through that ordeal anymore. Now we have a gas heater, and it will replace the wood-burning stove this winter.
I was afraid that Soso’s spine would become curved in the old bed; it was very uncomfortable for him, and he would contort his body. In this orthopedic bed, I can even sit him up and feed him comfortably. It brings great relief to me and also to Soso. Even though he doesn’t talk, I can see that he feels freer and more at ease lying down. There is no more restlessness; the child straightens out in the bed.
“I can see that my grandson is more comfortable and better in the new bed”
“Look, my grandson will be lying on such beautiful bedding”
You have no idea how much my boy used to dislike shaving. The old razor would scratch his face, leaving wounds and pulling his stubble instead of shaving it. It was painful and unpleasant for him. Now Soso, out of habit, expects torment, but it’s no longer the case because you brought me a modern electric shaver. I will be able to trim his hair myself. I just need to figure out how to use the hair clippers.
Both he and I are filled with joy when we look at new things. It’s nice to have the house filled up. A refrigerator, gas stove, microwave, meat grinder, electric kettle, blender, tablet… Do you think he doesn’t understand? Oh, he understands very well! Not all of his senses are dead. He can feel joy and sadness very keenly.
“Your gifts will ease our difficult life”
“My portable stove was already in very poor condition. You brought a new gas stove just in time!”
“The old refrigerator was nothing more than a cupboard, but now I can store both lunch and groceries in it”
– Malardo, what did like Soso the most?
Malardo: He keeps his tablet and coloring books with him all the time, even sleeps with them. Our neighbor, a tenth grader, will teach me and Soso how to use the tablet. I will play cartoons for him and whatever he wants.
– You are so wonderful and precious! You continue to learn for the sake of your grandson.
Malardo: Do I have anyone dearer and closer to me? Does my poor Soso have anyone else in this world? He forces me to live. His joy is the meaning of my life. Need I say that those who brought him joy are my best friends?! I ask God for all blessings for the readers of the Fund. I wish great happiness for all of you.
– Have you personally met and interacted with any of the Fund’s readers?
Malardo: Every day, this old phone received 170-100 messages, and the screen would show “memory full.” I called the neighbor girl to read your text messages, and she conveyed very warm words to me. But I am very concerned that I couldn’t reply by phone or internet. My eyes don’t allow it, and I don’t have money on my account to make a call back.
I properly thanked those who came to visit us. I remember a woman from Telavi, Maisuradze. She brought food and wet wipes for my Soso. There were also readers from Gurjaani. But I couldn’t pay attention to the others because of this out-of-date phone, and I get nervous.
Malardo, don’t worry, and do it now.
Malardo: You are very bright people! I feel that you are ready to forget your own problems when you hear about someone else’s sorrow! You deserve the best in the world. I want you to fly with happiness, not just walk. When I was younger, when I could do something, well, when I was a full-fledged member of society, I also tried to help people. If I couldn’t help financially, I would support them with warm words, morally. I was particularly saddened by orphans, sick, and poor children.
My Soso is also like an orphan, my poor boy, he is disabled. Let my daughter be upset that everyone learned about our terrible life. But Soso is alive! He needs to eat, drink, he needs conditions. And we were perishing from poverty. I grabbed onto you as a chance to save ourselves. And you are helping us not to die.
Your kindness has touched the depths of my soul. I cry with gratitude.
– You also addressed your daughter in this message…
Malardo: Soso has been living with me for 19 years. And now he’s left to die with me. Whether sick or healthy, he should have been with his mother. I do things even when I can’t.
– Malardo, did our project have any impact on the local authorities?
Malardo: Your project has brought everyone to life. Even my former son-in-law, who speaks ill of me.
The authorities were aware of our situation with Soso, but it didn’t concern them at all. Now they have shown a little concern: they offered to provide a bed. But you have already surpassed them. Then they brought diapers, though they were small in size. We couldn’t use them. They took them away and brought proper ones. To be honest, now we have reached a point where they promised to help us four times a year with 300 lari – with diapers and medication.
Friends, this family’s situation is tragic. The strength of Malardo is not infinite. She constantly needs help. Pray for her in your prayers, and whoever is nearby and can visit – we will tell the whole of Georgia about it.
The family also constantly needs food and medication. Our care for Malardo is like a respite for her. It allows her to care for her grandson and cope with the burden that is beyond her capabilities.
If you have a heavy heart because of everyday problems or unresolved issues, as a distraction just see our posts on Facebook, or better call any of our beneficiaries, and all your problems will seem unimportant to you, compared with the problems of those to whom you helped in the most difficult moment of their lives.
Our problems are nothing if compared… Here are true misfortunes, in front of your eyes! Just thank the Lord for what you have. You are the happiest person in the world! Remember this and help those in need.
Unfortunately, problems of this and other families do not end here and now… Therefore, from time to time, look through the stories of unhappy people on our website, and talk to them. Every time you dial the Phone of an unhappy person, God is blessing you! For sure! Go on helping these families! This is the best service to the Lord!
Friends, there is one more request: if you know about the misfortune of a neighbor or friend do a godly deed, drop us an email at: office-fsp@fsp.ge
Your kindness is a chance for yourself to be happy!
Friends, thanks again to each of you!
Our Fund’s accounts are:
– In Bank of Georgia #GE42LB0115113036665000
– In TBC Bank #GE15TB7194336080100003;
– In Liberty Bank #GE42LB0115113036665000;
It is also possible to transfer money from TBCpay, ExpressPay and PayBox (OPPA) terminals. Find our Fund under “Charity” section (you can read more about rights and responsibilities of the Fund following the link https://goo.gl/GY2Gus).
Let’s believe that by helping others, we take care of our own souls and draw closer to Lord through the suffering that we share with them!
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