Give the gift of life to Tornike...!
Rarely, friends, but God Almighty does give us a chance to do what only He does. This is right our case. After all, every lari donated to this child will give him an extra second, minute, hour, month, or even a year, two or more of life.
Extend the days of this good boy's life, great God!
The story of Tornike's mother – Leila.
Leila: My husband and my sick son live in a relative's apartment. We don't have anything of our own. We sold everything we could sell to cure Tornike. We've been treating him for sixteen years.
The biggest problem we have is Tornike's disease. He is literally fading in our hands! Look at him... he's withdrawn and doesn't talk. He's in such pain that he can't open his teeth!
I am 59 years old, and my husband is 62. Tornike is 17. He is our joy! And his disease is muscular dystrophy.
Reporter: When did the problems start? Has Tornike been ill
since birth?
Leila: No, no. My son was born absolutely healthy, he even went to school.
Before the 4th grade, Tornike had no special problems. It all started
suddenly...The child found it difficult to move. Over time, his health
deteriorated. We were diagnosed with muscular dystrophy, which progresses and
affects different organ systems. It was a sentence for the rest of my only
son's life! My husband immediately had infarct. And I'm the only healthy person
in our family now. But I suffer more than anyone else in the world. It hurts my
heart when my boy screams, when I see my husband's suffering!
– What did the doctors say? What did you do to prevent the disease from
progressing?
Leila: We needed constant medical and procedural treatment so that the
condition would not become complicated, but we did not have enough funds...
Complete recovery with this diagnosis is almost impossible. We knew that. We
sold everything we had and treated the boy.
– What kind of person is Tornike? Tell us about him.
Leila: Tornike is a very cheerful and active boy. Sitting in a wheelchair, he
participated in theatrical productions at Marjanishvili theater; he painted and
participated in exhibitions. He also sings well. Wherever he saw a microphone,
he picked it up and started singing. Now we sing together at home. We try to
get out of this situation and live as actively and positively as possible. Hope
has great power.
– Does Tornike believe that he will recover?
Leila: He believes; he says that God will not leave him. I often show videos of
children who have gone through difficult times, but have recovered, were able
to move independently and are now active. I keep telling him that if you
believe, you will get better. The main thing is to try. He's been complaining
of leg pains lately. He rarely contacts us. I keep telling him not to do it. On
the contrary, he should actively engage in contact.
– Does Tornike have any friends?
Leila: Yes, certainly. His classmates are very supportive of him. They pay a
lot of attention to him. They are very fond of Tornike, and Tornike is also
crazy about them. I couldn't imagine how much warmth they could express.
– What pleases him most?
Leila: He is very happy when someone brings sweets. He is looking forward to
see us if we are not at home. He waits for us to bring yogurt or other sweets.
I wanted to buy him some yogurt yesterday, but I couldn't. I had no money.
– Why doesn't he talk to people now?
Leila: He's been very self-contained in recent years. It became difficult to
communicate. But his friends do not forget, love and often repeat to him that
he taught them to be kind, sensitive and friendly. You know, I understand him.
He spends all day at home; when he broke his leg and had a very difficult
operation, his character changed. Since then, he has not been able to go to
school. The condition was so severe that he was immediately taken to Turkey for
surgery. Since that time he has been at home and we all strive to do everything
we can for him to get him out of this situation. Rehabilitation is not complete
yet.
– How did Tornike break his leg?
Leila: He was taken to Bakuriani resort under the state program for recreation.
During a walk, the wheel of the stroller broke and Tornike fell out of it. The
leg was broken between the hip and the knee. The deplorable condition of his
curved spine aggravated the situation. The operation was vital.
– You said that you have the status of a socially unprotected family. – Does
the state help you?
Leila: Yes, for many years. In previous years, we had small points and received
benefits. But now the social workers probably thought that we "got
rich" and lowered our allowance. We receive scanty social allowance in the
amount of 180 lari. The state partially finances expensive medicines and tests
and medical procedures. Previously, we were given 50 lari to feed Tornike, but
when he turned 16, this surcharge was cancelled.
– You do not work, your husband, as I understand, cannot always earn a living,
so how do you cope with financial problems? Who helped you solve such big
problems?
Leila: I don't work because of my son. When the son's diagnosis was confirmed,
the husband had a heart attack due to a nervous breakdown. We managed to save
him... Therefore, he can't handle hard work. He helps me take care of the
child. I would like to note that your Fund has supported us for many years. I
can't even find words of gratitude that really express my feelings about your
work. Bow low to you.
– Does anyone of your neighbors or friends help you?
Leila: When your strength is running out and you want to cry from despair,
that's when someone will come to help. Neighbors help us often. They know that
Tornike likes sweets and if someone bakes something, one piece always goes to
Tornike. Sometimes complete strangers come and support... They are all from
God!
– What kind of help do you need at the moment?
Leila: Tornike's spine is in a terrible state, if you are not afraid I will
show you... He needs a special bed and an orthopedic and anti-bedsore mattress
which we do not have. And look at what he's lying on! This is an old
dilapidated couch. We also need a wheelchair to bring him to the yard at least.
There are special wheelchairs that properly hold the body and head, a normal
wheelchair can no longer be used, it is dangerous!
– Are you a believer?
Leila: Yes, I am a Christian believer. I grew up in a very decent family in
love and warmth. My love to God comes from my parents. I believe in Him!
Tornike has more faith in God than I do. We used to go to Church for communion
all the time, but now we can't afford it for 2 years because we can't
physically get to the Church after he broke his leg. How nice it would be the
priest came to us and gave communion to my poor son!
– Do you believe that the Fund will help you?
Leila: Yes, certainly. One hundred percent sure. We remember when we first
asked you for help, your response was so important, and we feel that you are
always there for us. Many thanks to your for everything! I am sure that along
with you, others will help us in any way they can. Your word is worth a lot!
– What do you dream about, what do you need to make your family feel happy?
LeiIa: I was the happiest woman on Earth when God gave me my son. It was an
incredible feeling when he said mama for the first time. I want him to keep
fighting!
– How can I help you at this stage, what do you need most?
Leila: Tornike and I have a joint dream that we can walk the streets, but we
need a special wheelchair. Also, I need a bed where my son and I can fit
together, because he can't sleep without holding my hand and not feeling his
mother next to him. You need a special mattress against bedsores and
medications. We need a balanced diet rich in vitamins and minerals... he has
become very weak. I'm very sorry to ask, but we can't solve the problems
without your help.
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Friends, as you can see, the Kikabidze family lives in extreme need. The family
is in need of food, medicines, household appliances, beds and a wheelchair.
Let's support them, show mercy, give a seriously ill teenager a
chance not to suffer from pain and have at least elementary joys. He just needs
a comfortable bed, tasty food and a possibility to go outdoors. You can
personally visit this family and provide assistance. They will be happy! Call
Leila, find out about her needs, cheer her up, support her, tell her that she
is not alone and that nobody will leave them alone in their trouble! It is very
important.
This is their address: Тел: 555 22 37 46
Dear friends, Chernovetskyi Fund
initiates a charitable action: to help the Tornike Kikabidze. As you know, the
Fund does not stop at one-time assistance. Without children, the country and
people have no future. Take care of the younger generation! Help them survive!
"Write them down" as your relatives. And we are sure that the Lord
himself will bless you.
And be sure to repost our publication. Let all your friends know about the
grief of this family! It is very important.
God gives us the opportunity to take care of people who are not able to do it
themselves. Not all people are the same. And not everyone is as kind as we are.
Please, do not pass aside the sorrow of others! Unhappy people are given to us
from above so that we can prove our faith to the Almighty not in words but in
deeds!
Friends, there is one more request, if you know about the misfortune of a
neighbor or friend, do a Charitable deed, write to us by e-mail: office-fsp@fsp.ge
Our Fund account GE15TB7194336080100003, GE42LB0115113036665000 or
GE64BG0000000470458000 (purpose: Tornike Kikabidze). You can also transfer
money from our website.
You can as well transfer money from the terminals of OPPA, TBCpay and
ExpressPay. Find our Fund in "Charity" section. (You can learn about
the additional rights and obligations of the Fund by following the link https://goo.gl/GY2Gus).
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